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Dating… You’d think it’s the only thing happening in your life, right? It’s all anyone seems to ask you about—”How’s dating going? Any new updates? Met anyone recently?” Meanwhile, you’re juggling a hundred other things because, let’s be honest, life is so much more than just dating, especially around Succos. This time of year, it feels like all the decisions are piling up at once, and not one of them involves “Have you met someone yet?” With Succos fast approaching,

As the plane was about to take off, I sent my husband a quick text. He was on his way to Uman, his yearly visit with Rebbe Nachman for Rosh Hashana. It wasn’t just a casual message; it came from a place deep inside, a place filled with longing and pain that’s been building for years. I didn’t overthink it, didn’t try to mask how I really felt. I simply said what my heart had been repeating over and over

So, you’re flying high one minute—everything’s clicking, the conversations are flowing, and you’re pretty sure you’ve finally found someone who gets you. One day, they’re all into you—sending sweet texts, making plans, making you feel like you’re the absolute center of their universe. But then, out of nowhere, they pull back, go quiet, and leave you sitting there, questioning everything. It’s confusing, frustrating, and can drive anyone up the wall. But before you start spiraling into overanalysis or throwing in

We’ve all had them—the dreaded “we need to talk” moments. The kind that makes your brain instantly start reviewing all the ways you might’ve messed up. But with a well-timed preemptive statement, you can actually have those tough conversations without sending your spouse into a panic spiral. The power of the preemptive statement Picture this: You had a crazy day of chasing the kids, battling traffic, and spilling coffee on yourself, yet despite that, all you want is to sit

A few weeks ago, I shared the story of my marathon 20-hour drive to Miami, where I talked about how knowing my “why” was the driving force that kept me going. So, what was my big “why”? It was burnout. Yep, good old burnout—the kind that sneaks up on you when you’re juggling too many things and think you’re some kind of superhero. I had taken on too much at once, pushing myself to the edge of exhaustion and overwhelm.

Looking to improve your dating game? On Tu B’Av, a day of love, we reflect on the journey to finding love. But don’t worry, your “Dating Report Card” is not set in stone! Miriam Zeitlin, a passionate dating coach, can help turn those C’s into A’s. With her expertise, you’ll learn to make memorable first impressions, master conversation tactics, embrace vulnerability, and develop listening skills. Celebrate Tu B’Av by reflecting on your progress and discovering how Miriam can help you find your bashert. Let’s turn your dating journey into a success story!

Tears have a special place in our emotional world. They’re more than just water falling from our eyes – they’re a way our souls communicate when words just aren’t enough. Tears are powerful. They are a way to connect, to heal, and sometimes, to completely change our lives. I want to share with you an incredible story about a young woman named Shira. Her experience shows us just how impactful tears can be. Shira was going through a really tough

Let’s face it – shidduch dating is already a rollercoaster ride, even when you’re in perfect health. Throw in a chronic illness, and suddenly, you’ve got a whole theme park of challenges to navigate! For those dealing with chronic conditions like diabetes, Crohn’s, rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, fibromyalgia, asthma, vision or hearing impairment, POTS, MS, CF, or any of the other fun acronyms the medical world has bestowed upon you, the path to finding that special someone can feel like trying

Recently, I did something that might sound a bit wild to some but is pretty much par for the course for me. I woke up one morning and told my husband I was driving down to Miami for a few weeks. Being the crazy person that I am, he believed me. 🤣 (I will share my why in a future blog.) After packing the car with everything I thought I would need for my trip, I began the long drive.

This story first made me laugh out loud at its absurdity, but then I realized we all do this in some way. Lessons from a Chinese zoo In a peculiar twist of zoological creativity, a Chinese zoo recently made headlines by dyeing Chow-Chow dogs to resemble pandas, dubbing them “panda dogs.” While it may seem cute on the surface, this stunt by a Chinese zoo highlights a deeper issue we see all too often in the world: the tendency for people

I wanted to share a thought about Shiva Assar B’Tammuz – the 17th of Tammuz. It’s the start of what’s known as “The Three Weeks.” This period commemorates the time between the breaching of the walls of Yerushalayim and the eventual destruction of the Beis Hamikdash. It’s a tough three weeks, marked by sadness and reflection, but there’s also a deeper lesson here about resilience and hope. One of the most challenging aspects of any difficult situation is the uncertainty

Who doesn’t love a good story, especially one that involves adorable animals and a lesson that offers chizuk in Shidduchim? This is the tale of the elephant and the dog, both of whom found themselves expecting simultaneously. It’s a story with a lesson for anyone who is hoping to meet their bashert soon. A Tale of Two Pregnancies Once upon a time, in a land where animals could talk, an elephant and a dog discovered they were expecting at the

Why What We Think We Want Isn’t Always What We Choose We all have a checklist of what we want in an ideal partner. It could be tall, dark, and handsome or perhaps smart, funny, and kind. But what if I told you those checklists often go right out the window when we actually meet someone in real life? It sounds crazy, but the person who ticks every box on paper isn’t necessarily the one who makes your heart skip