Is This You?
On The Dating Scene

“Dating feels like a full-time
job—with no paycheck.”
“Everyone says I’m picky. I say I
have standards.”
“I keep saying yes… and keep
wanting to say no.”
After The Chupa

“We talk… mostly about the
grocery list.”
“We’re functioning.
Not flourishing.”
“I miss us.”
Dating. Marriage. So many feelings.
Let’s make sense of them—together.
The Miriam Zeitlin Difference
Here’s what makes working with me different, and why so many clients say it changed their relationships.

It's All About YOU
Confidence That Sticks
Real Skills, Real Results
Your Patterns, Decoded
Always in Your Corner

About Me
So, how did I end up here?
My journey into the world of shidduchim began with phone calls like, “Can I just run this by you real quick?” or “Is it normal if he…” —I was always the one people turned to for guidance in matters of the heart. I took some breaks to focus on raising my kids, but I never really disappeared. Once my kids were old enough, I had the bandwidth to dive back in full-time.
I kept noticing that daters needed way more than just another introduction. They were drowning in bad first dates, second-guessing themselves into oblivion, and making dating way harder than it needs to be. I thought to myself: there’s got to be a better way.
Since I was already coaching people left and right (totally unofficially), I decided to get serious about it. I’ve earned multiple certifications in dating coaching, life coaching, and marriage mentoring because when you love what you do, you want to be absolutely amazing at it. I’m also a trained and certified kallah teacher, so I fully understand the intimacy aspect of relationships as well.
I’m not your average shidduch dating coach. I don’t just stop at engagement – I’m with you from the very first date, through the entire journey into marriage. Whether you’re dating for the first time or re-entering the dating world after divorce or loss, I understand that each stage brings its own unique dynamics and challenges that require specialized support and sensitivity. I’m also there after marriage, when you wonder if your spouse came with a return policy!
My motto? Once my client, always my client. Because real relationships don’t stop needing support just because you upgraded from dating drama to married chaos.
Guiding people to confidently navigate their relationship paths and build incredible connections has lit a fire in me to share these insights with even more people! I love connecting with groups and bringing uplifting perspectives and a fresh outlook to your next event, workshop, or Shabbaton.
Your success is my success. We're in this together.
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What to Expect from Shidduch & Marriage Coaching
This coaching experience is built around you—your story, your pace, your goals. Here’s what you can count on:

Most people stumble through dating, hoping they’ll figure it out as they go. But what if there was actually a way to prepare for one of life’s biggest decisions?
In my book Finding Forever: From First Date to Soulmate, I teach you what you actually need to know (finally)—Discover the real you (not the dating version), build deep connections, and recognize your person when you find them.
Download My Free A-Z Dating Guide
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