Finding Forever:

From First Date to Soulmate

Ever wonder why nobody actually teaches you how to date, yet you’re expected to figure out one of life’s biggest decisions on your own? You’re out there trying to determine if this person could be your life partner based on a few conversations over coffee, while secretly wondering if you even know who you are and what you’re looking for.


Finding Forever is the book that actually prepares you for this whole thing. Not with the usual “be yourself” advice (which would be great if you actually knew who that was), but with the real work of understanding yourself and building genuine connections.

I’m ready to unlock these pages!

We cover the good stuff: how to...

•  Master solo before you duo and discover who you are before dating anyone else.
•  Are they a keeper? Spot the universal qualities that make marriage possible.
•  Talk that connects and have conversations that actually reveal who people are.
•  Deepening connections through vulnerability and authentic sharing.
•  Deep thinking and…overthinking to make clear decisions without going crazy.
•  But…how do I know they’re the one? Navigate the final leap with confidence.

...plus a lot more.

Each chapter is packed with real stories from my coaching files, practical exercises you can actually use, and step-by-step frameworks that make sense. The format includes visual elements and tools that turn complex relationship stuff into something you can actually understand and apply.

I don’t just tell you to be authentic. I don’t just tell you to be more vulnerable. I don’t just tell you to create a wants and needs list. I don’t just tell you to be a better listener. I don’t just tell you to stop overthinking. I show, not tell.

I teach you how. I will guide you. I break down the difference. I give you the skills. I explain what that means.

I show, not tell.

Here is an excerpt from the book:

Written with humor and zero fluff, this book makes learning relationship skills something you’ll actually enjoy. Created specifically for the frum community, it draws on proven relationship principles and combines timeless wisdom with modern relationship science. The result? You’ll approach dating with clarity, confidence, and the tools you actually need.

You don’t need to become someone else to find the right person. You need to figure out who you truly are so you can build something genuine with someone who truly understands you.

Your bashert isn’t looking for perfect—they’re looking for you.

Written with humor and zero fluff, this book makes learning relationship skills something you’ll actually enjoy. Created specifically for the frum community, it draws on proven relationship principles and combines timeless wisdom with modern relationship science. The result? You’ll approach dating with clarity, confidence, and the tools you actually need.

You don’t need to become someone else to find the right person. You need to figure out who you truly are so you can build something genuine with someone who truly understands you.

Your bashert isn’t looking for perfect—they’re looking for you.

I’m ready to grab my copy!

Testimonials

Miriam Zeitlin has an uncanny ability to share practical and authentic dating advice in a way that is both understanding and approachable. What truly makes Miriam unique is that she is a dating coach and an active shadchan. She understands the dating process from both perspectives and offers guidance that is consistently valuable and effective. This book is a must-read!
Lisa Elefant
Founder of Adopt-a-Shadchan
This book is a true gift to the Dater! With her warm, friendly and open style, Miriam makes it so easy for the reader to absorb the skills, practical tips, and powerful exercises, as well as important perspectives and foundational truths. The balance of meaningful and practical makes this book relatable, useful, and so important for every dater.
Rochel Goldbaum
Creator of the Directed Dating approach, (co-founder of Core and founder of My Gift of Mikvah)
Excellent excellent book! I'm so impressed! You covered so many important topics and broke them down so perfectly! I love that you addressed the dating process as well as commitment, conflict and the levels of intimacy. Truly excellent work. Kol Hakavod!
Yaffa Palti
Motivational speaker and Torah Educator
I think this book is a great contribution and well done.
Rabbi Efram Goldberg
Boca Raton Synagogue
Miriam Zeitlin has so much knowledge to share and does it in such an approachable way! Miriam incorporates her years of experience, her heartfelt care, and her pinpointed advice into a beautiful book that will benefit all daters, their parents, and even married people who are looking to understand themselves and shidduchim better.
Raquel Betesh
M.S., Dating Coach and Host of the Relationships Rock Podcast
A fun read written in a way relatable to all ages, Miriam presents relatable scenarios and great ideas for dating and marriage.
Moshe Norman
LCSW, Lakewood
I’m ready to unlock these pages!

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