Dating Coaching

With Miriam Zeitlin

Dating Advice is Everywhere.

Your friends have theories. Your family has suggestions. At simchas, random people share stories about their cousin’s neighbor who met someone amazing.

And somehow, none of it seems to apply to your actual dating life.

You know what you want.
You know what you don’t want.
But somewhere between the first date nerves and second-guessing yourself, it’s easy to lose track of your own voice.
To wonder if you’re doing this whole thing right.

As a Jewish dating coach, here’s what I’ve learned from years of helping singles navigate this: you’re the expert on your own life. My job is to help you trust your expertise.

I understand the unique challenges of dating in our world, and I can help you feel confident in your choices every step of the way.

Every Stage. Every Step. I’ve Got You.

From that first name redt to the last-date jitters, I’m Miriam Zeitlin,
a frum dating coach on a mission to guide you through every stage—with clarity, calm, and care.

Getting Started

It’s easy to feel lost in a sea of shidduch résumés, suggestions, and pressure. Together, we’ll slow it down and get clear on what you’re really looking for—so your decisions feel intentional and grounded, not rushed or reactive.

The Waiting Game

The date is set—and suddenly the anxiety kicks in. I’ll help you prepare mentally and emotionally, so you feel calm and confident walking in. No scripts or fake smiles—just you, grounded and ready.

First Dates & Early Impressions

First dates can feel like a blur. You’re trying to make a good impression, stay present, and figure out if there’s potential—all at once. I’ll help you focus on what actually matters in those early meetings, so you’re not stuck overthinking every silence or smile.

Mixed Signals &
Middle Ground

You’ve been on a few dates, and things aren’t bad… but they’re not amazing either. We’ll figure out what’s holding you back: doubts, anxieties, fears, or maybe something deeper you hadn’t noticed before.

Moving Toward Something Real

The connection is growing—but so are the stakes. You’re not just dating for fun—you want something lasting. I’ll help you check in with yourself honestly and explore whether this is something worth building on.

The Big Decision

You’re nearing the point where a decision needs to be made—but something’s making you hesitate. Is it a real concern? A fear of commitment? Pressure from others? We’ll talk it through clearly and calmly, so your yes (or your no) comes from a place of confidence.

Testimonials

Miriam, thank you for teaching me how to be more present on dates. My last date was so much easier. I showed up calm and actually listened instead of overthinking everything.

– Chana R., Brooklyn

I used to go on dates with a script and end up sounding fake. Miriam helped me drop that and just be myself. Now the conversations flow, and I don’t feel like I’m performing.

– Esther L., Toronto

Miriam, thank you for showing me what’s actually important and figuring out the difference between my wants and my needs. Once that clicked, I stopped wasting time on dates that were not right for me and started meeting people who made sense.

– Devori H., Lakewood

I was so desperate to get married that I was dating with blinders on. I almost got engaged to someone, ignoring all the red flags. Miriam helped me see them clearly and gave me the guts to step back before I said yes.

– Eliana S., Flatbush

– Rina K., Monsey

Get In Touch

I’m here for you!

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